21 things that got me through the biggest financial shock of my life

As I followed my boss through the hallway I wondered what could she possibly have to talk to me in such a rush after I had been away for five weeks in Thailand for yoga teacher training.

The sight of Celene, the Human Resources manager, clarified it all. After 10 years I was being fired.

From then on it was like a movie, I absorved the faces of concern, the fake extra-detailed reassurance of my boss saying that it had nothing to do with my performance, the cheap talk about how this was difficult, the fear in their faces, I mean: Would I sue like everyone else does in NYC?

Would I cry? Go postal? I had, after all, mortgage payments north of 2000 dollars per month in the worst housing market of the past 30 years, a car, a Yoga monthly membership, credit card debt, no family in the United States, not a penny in my pocket.

Of all the shocking situations I have lived through this one felt the most real because it had to do with the very practical technicalities of what I was going to eat the following week. With where  I was going to sleep if my house was foreclosed, the YMCA? friend's couch? a shelter? Time Square?

I remember walking back into my cubicle knowing that I could go home now, that it was all over, something I had secretly desired for years.

MS Outlook showed 2127 unread messages.  A form on my desk had a post it in it asking me to re-do some entry in the helpdesk database, and another asked for an explanation of a cell phone charge while in Hong Kong. I felt a burst of anger and laughed out loud. In my mind I gave them all the finger, I was now beyond all those mundane things I did not care for. I was free, powerful even.

Then of course I crashed.

Walking down Six Avenue later that morning I remember looking at people and seeing how the world kept going even in spite of my desperation, how it all seemed to go on as usual, how nobody noticed.

At some point around 46th Street I stopped dead on my tracks and in the midst of the bustle that is New York City I looked up at the sky and clearly stated out loud:
"Dear God, this is a bit much for me.  I will keep on putting one foot in front of the other but You take care of the big details cause this is frigging out of my range"
And then I did put one foot in front of the other, one breath following the previous breath, one moment following the other. I continued living.

Looking back I can say that many things contributed to get me through the storm and bring me back to a place of balance, happiness, stability and even reinvention.   These are 21 of them:
  1. Realized that I wanted to be happy rather than right
  2. Gave away 90% of my possessions -kind of had no choice, I was selling the house. Ended up being the best decision of my life.
  3. Allowed myself the opportunity to cry and feel like a failure. Then washed my face and kept going.
  4. Remained friends with the Human Resources person, I like her.
  5. Attended 12 step meetings, OA, DA, ALANON, SLAA. I admitted that I was powerless and I came to believe that a power "Greater than myself" could restore me to sanity. 
  6. Volunteered for the meetings above and NYCares, surprisingly that was one of the most rewarding and healing things I did. Helping others ended up helping me. Funny, I know.
  7. Woke up every morning to coffee, shower, and getting dressed.  I meant business regardless of what the so-called "reality" suggested. 
  8. Made a collage of the things I wanted to attract into my life, kept it cool, but did it anyway (see #1 above)
  9. Started dating again and kept actively and purposely socializing.
  10. Learned to dance tango and salsa. That part was so much fun. Affordable too.
  11. Read Wayne Dyer, Chopra and Marianne Williamson, I was in search for miracles. Learned that the biggest miracle of all is that of switching our own perceptions.
  12. Chanted the Gayatri mantra like I meant it. Guess how many benefits this mantra brings?
  13. Cooked and ate at home all the time. Learned a few dishes by the way, I can make a mean curry.
  14. Kept up the yoga practice, every day.
  15. Did not just look for jobs but after interviews I wrote lists to the potential employees with ideas of how they could improve their working situations (from the perspective of an IT Training Manager, which is what I was)
  16. Talked to everyone under the sun, financial advisors, bankers, psychologists, wise women of my tribe, friends, friends of friends.
  17. Did not waste energy on hating or blaming. Could not afford to.
  18. Walked up every morning listing all the things I was grateful for (yoga, friends, love, my family in Argentina)
  19. Meditated
  20. Slept and ate as healthy as I could on my budget
  21. Eventually, 6 months later, the house was sold without having to foreclose or short sell, taking a bit of a loss which was financed by borrowing from the 401K. 
I am enternally grateful for the lessons learned, and although I rather never have to go through it again, at least I know that I survived, it is possible, and it can be done.

The day after I was fired, on my next yoga class, when I told John Cambpell (my yoga teacher) what had happened he said to me: "This is your work now".  He meant yoga. I smiled.

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46 comments:

  1. for me, number 7 is what i would consider one of the greatest accomplishments. but all of them are very inspiring. as a former teacher of mine would say 'strong work'.

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  2. Dear Claudia
    This explains your talent for putting such a high quality blog- your IT background. Bendito nena, I've been in this situation so often- it's part and parcel of my industry- I know it's not a walk in the park, so I understand what you went through. Things are more stable in my current situation. I like number 18. I hear people are doing that with luxury items right now- you can see what's practically being given away in eBay these days.
    hugs
    Arturo

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  3. @Tova, thank you, yes number 7 is a good one and it may sound simple, but it takes "strong work" like your teacher says. Good to hear from you, and let me take this opportunity to thank you for bringing David in to answer the nutation question a few days ago, I am grateful to you :-)

    @Arturo, so you know ha?, yeah!, tough business... I feel that giving away so much really made me feel like a new me, much lighter. It was also sweet to see all those boxes outside the old house going to the Vietnam Vets, to people that hopefully could really use all that accumulated stuff, not that I had much, but I had some. I felt so good afterwards!

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  4. your yoga teacher's statement really spoke to me. I'm not sure why.
    I am so glad for you though you made it through. I have no idea what i would have done in your place.

    Much Light Claudia :)
    (ps, I can completely picture the stopping in NYC, especially after my first trip ever there in Sept!)

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  5. Love the last comment about yoga being your work now!! I am on a similar path as you. Left the corporate world and am pursuing a much happier life with fewer possessions,eating at home (much prefer it now to expensive, unsatisfying and unhealthy meals out), and to my delight lots of yoga and meditation. Am almost finished with YTT and hoping to make yoga my work as much as possible. Your story is very inspiring and I wish you a peaceful and prosperous New Year!

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  6. Loved this post, and I have to say that in hindsight, it was the moment your life turned around for good. Sometimes blessings do come in disguise (if you have the strength and wisdom to see it, and you did). Love u. nat.

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  7. Claudia

    Glad that u converted the crisis in your life in to an opportunity for self growth .Keep it up .

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  8. @Eco Yogini, thank you, maybe it spoke to you because yoga is your work too :-) I would say so. So you have been to the big Apple? impressive ha? impersonal yet so close, next time you are around let me know, would love to have chai with you

    @Maria, thank you, congrats on getting closer to the end of the YTT, and I very much relate to you, I do indeed enjoy cooking at home and having less and less... it feels so light, happy 2011 to you too

    Nat, si, very true, gracias :-) Love you too

    @Krishna, yeah, guess you can say I converted the crisis, did not feel like an opportunity although it clearly was, I will keep it up :-)

    @Lilasvb, thank you, and so are you! my dancer yogi friend!

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  9. 14. ahhhh so that's where the lists come from.

    Think I like JC, what a cool thing to say, pithy.

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  10. Hi Grimmly, yes I love my lists, that is the kind of girl I am what can I say! and yes JC is really magic, very special :-)

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  11. what a truly inspiring post! this one is getting bookmarked :) I've learned over the past year that one of the best ways to cope with problems is to focus my energy on others. #16 is my favorite - wasting energy on hatred and negativity is so tempting sometimes, but always in vain. Kudos to you for recognizing that and being so strong.

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  12. @Charmcityspence, thank you, I agree, although it is hard, directing the energy towards the light is much more effective than using it on hating... I am happy to come to your blog too, will blogroll and follow it :-)

    @FFT - that one gets to be added to the unusual yoga quotes. I love it!

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  13. Very beautiful post, Claudia. Thanks for sharing. I think #7 is very powerful, and takes a lot of work. I understand and appreciate it intellectually, but I find myself driven more often than not by the desire to be proven right (you can probably tell this from some of my postings). Much work in this department for me.

    As somebody (1)who has no family in this country, (2) is still looking for a tenure-track (i.e. permanent) position in academia (translation: I am the academic equivalent of a temporary worker), I think I can relate to at least some of what you went through. But I also believe that nothing is all bad or all good. You gained so much from going through what you went through.

    Again, thanks for sharing!

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  14. Nobel, you make me laugh, can I tell by reading you? ha ha ha. Number 7, perhaps I should clarify, is a work in progress for me too... I relate to what you are saying, yeah, intellectually is all good, but when the gut reactions kick in, another story! I see we have quite a bit in common... and yes I did learned a lot from this one, although I do not wish it on others... this was a tough lesson, a very scary one!

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  15. you are amazing...a big warm hug

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  16. Thank you Maria, big hug to you too

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  17. Lovely, Honest, Powerful! #16 is very wise! Why reject your karma? Stand up, face it and purify:)
    big hugs,
    Janaki

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  18. Thank you Janaki, that is a good way to put it! hope the Tara meditation went well :-)

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  19. Claudia,
    What a beautiful list. All 21 are wise actions in anytime of life - and can be truly savored for their divine purpose and inspiration when the trappings of the (temporary) world dissolve. Thank you for sharing your process and result. (ps #3 helps with 1,2 and 4 through 21).

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  20. Thanks Kyczy, nice to meet you.

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  21. One of your husband's followers mentioned this post today. I'm glad he did. Thank you for this.

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  22. Thanks for writing Brooke, glad you liked it :)

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  23. Claudia -- Your blog is a delight to read. I am glad to have found it. I found your Mysore guide to be quite interesting. I call Bangalore my home. Made a trip to Mysore with my family couple of years ago, after living in this country for nearly 21 years!

    I am at the crossroads trying to find the right course to realign and re-calibrate my work and personal life to bring in more balance and health.

    I am leaning towards Yoga for developing that balance.

    Thanks for your blog. And for James' as well!

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  24. Suresh, thanks for writing and for the compliment on the blog. Nice that you live in Bangalore! an for 21 years, wow, long time!

    I think you are not alone in the recalibrating of work and personal life, a big shift is happening which is also pretty much reflected in James writing. Thanks for letting me know you read us both :-)

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  25. I had no idea you've known John so long!

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  26. I'm going through a very similar situation in my life currently (in terms of nobody in US, no permanent employment, leaving 90% of everything I had etc.) and share a huge part of your leanings (including the power of gayatri mantra, something that I have been using for a while). What I don't understand is submitting to a higher power? It seems counterintuitive and counterproductive to me?

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  27. yes, long term teacher... :-)  I am sad he is leaving!  oh well...

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  28. Ppagarwa I guess the thing with "higher power" is that it is a term like "god" somethng that a lot of us associate a lot of things with... when I think Higher Power these days I think 'the ways things are", the way reality is, the way life is taking me through different stages which are all for my spiritual development.... so I suppose it depends on how you interpret it...  good luck with what you are going throughv :-)

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  38. Testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 5 weeks
    before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on
    for 3years. I really loved him, but his mother was against us and he had no
    good paying job. So when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and
    explained the situation of things to him. At first i was undecided,skeptical
    and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. And in 7 days when i returned to
    Canada, my boyfriend (now husband) called me by himself and came to me
    apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got
    a new job interview so we should get married. I didn't believe it cos the spell
    caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to
    do. Well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid, and my
    husband also got the new job and our lives became much better. His email is
    atilahealinghome@yahoo.com. testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me
    5 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has
    been on for 3years. I really loved him, but his mother was against us and he
    had no good paying job. So when i met this spell caster, i told him what
    happened and explained the situation of things to him. At first i was
    undecided,skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. And in 7 days when
    i returned to Canada, my boyfriend (now husband) called me by himself and came
    to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and
    he got a new job interview so we should get married. I didn't believe it cos
    the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted
    him to do. Well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid,
    and my husband also got the new job and our lives became much better. Email him
    with odumaspiritualtemple@gmail.com

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  39. Hello.........
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  40. Hello.........
    my name is Mrs lawrenta pedro,i am from Manchester united,i am happily
    married and blessed with kids,i am a business woman and my husband is
    business man too we both operating provision store, on October 1st 2010 me
    and my husband embank on a trip to South Africa,on our way back,we had a terrible
    accident,that took my husband's life,while i was rushed to the hospital,by
    god grace,i was still living,after a year and seven month,when my husband
    were passed away,a man came to my house,and ask me to get married to him,
    unknown, that he was HIV positive and i never bordered to conduct a check
    up test with him,before,i accepted him into my life,why,because,he was so
    cute,gentle and handsome young man,he was so caring.i never look at
    him,like one that would be hiv positive.after two year of our marriage,my
    body system began to weak up,all day i feel dizzy and lazy,and i began to
    lose weight as well, so i went for a check up test ,for
    [fever,hiv/aid,malaria],the result, show me that, i am HIV positive.so i
    was afraid,that,i would die,so, i were running from hospitals,churches and
    native doctors,searching for cure, because i didn't want to die.one day i
    went to a pastor's house,i told him my problem;as i was telling the pastor
    my problem, there was one man which was with us,which i never look at his
    face,the pastor prayed for me,on my way out , this same man,who was siting
    with us,called me,i was like asking myself why this man was calling me, so
    i just manage to wait to hear out what he will say,he told me that,he will
    like to introduce me to this spell caster man, his name is HIOYA,SO
    i JUST SAID thanks and leaved,i never wanted to go and see this man called HIOYA,but a mind,ask me to go for a try,so i went there,i meant him and i explain everything to him,he cast a spell on me and he told me,after two weeks,i should go for a hiv check up test again,after two weeks,i went for the hiv test,which the result shows me that i am now HIV NEGATIVE,whaoooooooo. i was like mad at the hospital,very happy.....if you have any problem you are facing now.....

    HE IS SPECIALIZING IN THE FOLLOWING SPELL.
    love spell
    marriage spell
    divorce spell
    (1) If you want your ex back.
    (2) If you always have bad dreams.
    (3) If you want to be promoted in your office.
    (4) If you want women/men to run after you.
    (5) If you want a child.
    (6) If you want to be rich.
    (7) If you want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever.
    (8) If you need financial assistance.
    (9) How you been scammed and you want to recover you lost money.
    (10) If you want to stop your divorce.
    (11) If you want to divorce your husband.
    (12) If you want your wishes to be granted.
    (13) Pregnancy spells to conceive baby
    (14) Guarantee you win the troubling court cases & divorce no matter how what stage
    (15) Stop your marriage or relationship from breaking apart.
    (16) If you have any sickness like (H I V), (CANCER) or any sickness.
    (17) If you need prayers for deliverance for your child or yourself.
    (18)are having legs or joint pain,that is making you not to walk well
    Once again make sure you contact him if you have any problem he will help you. contact him immediately via[ greathioyatemple@gmail.com]OR CONTACT +2348063140585

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  41. Hello.........
    my name is Mrs lawrenta pedro,i am from Manchester united,i am happily
    married and blessed with kids,i am a business woman and my husband is
    business man too we both operating provision store, on October 1st 2010 me
    and my husband embank on a trip to South Africa,on our way back,we had a terrible
    accident,that took my husband's life,while i was rushed to the hospital,by
    god grace,i was still living,after a year and seven month,when my husband
    were passed away,a man came to my house,and ask me to get married to him,
    unknown, that he was HIV positive and i never bordered to conduct a check
    up test with him,before,i accepted him into my life,why,because,he was so
    cute,gentle and handsome young man,he was so caring.i never look at
    him,like one that would be hiv positive.after two year of our marriage,my
    body system began to weak up,all day i feel dizzy and lazy,and i began to
    lose weight as well, so i went for a check up test ,for
    [fever,hiv/aid,malaria],the result, show me that, i am HIV positive.so i
    was afraid,that,i would die,so, i were running from hospitals,churches and
    native doctors,searching for cure, because i didn't want to die.one day i
    went to a pastor's house,i told him my problem;as i was telling the pastor
    my problem, there was one man which was with us,which i never look at his
    face,the pastor prayed for me,on my way out , this same man,who was siting
    with us,called me,i was like asking myself why this man was calling me, so
    i just manage to wait to hear out what he will say,he told me that,he will
    like to introduce me to this spell caster man, his name is HIOYA,SO
    i JUST SAID thanks and leaved,i never wanted to go and see this man called HIOYA,but a mind,ask me to go for a try,so i went there,i meant him and i explain everything to him,he cast a spell on me and he told me,after two weeks,i should go for a hiv check up test again,after two weeks,i went for the hiv test,which the result shows me that i am now HIV NEGATIVE,whaoooooooo. i was like mad at the hospital,very happy.....if you have any problem you are facing now.....

    HE IS SPECIALIZING IN THE FOLLOWING SPELL.
    love spell
    marriage spell
    divorce spell
    (1) If you want your ex back.
    (2) If you always have bad dreams.
    (3) If you want to be promoted in your office.
    (4) If you want women/men to run after you.
    (5) If you want a child.
    (6) If you want to be rich.
    (7) If you want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever.
    (8) If you need financial assistance.
    (9) How you been scammed and you want to recover you lost money.
    (10) If you want to stop your divorce.
    (11) If you want to divorce your husband.
    (12) If you want your wishes to be granted.
    (13) Pregnancy spells to conceive baby
    (14) Guarantee you win the troubling court cases & divorce no matter how what stage
    (15) Stop your marriage or relationship from breaking apart.
    (16) If you have any sickness like (H I V), (CANCER) or any sickness.
    (17) If you need prayers for deliverance for your child or yourself.
    (18)are having legs or joint pain,that is making you not to walk well
    Once again make sure you contact him if you have any problem he will help you. contact him immediately via[ greathioyatemple@gmail.com]OR CONTACT +2348063140585

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  42. I
    AM Mrs jane... I want to testify of what a spell caster did for me and
    my hubby.we have been married since 2007 without a sign of pregnancy or
    conceiving.I went off birth control then and did not have a period.my
    gyro gave me progesterone to jump-start a period and it did., but i did
    not have another one.we did another round of progesterone followed by
    100mg cycloid for 5 months, we followed all doctors instructions but all
    to no avail.I have been buying ovulation kits pregnancy test AND i
    finally got 3 test when i was ovulating! So ever since that we been
    trying for years now! Well i was very confused because i keep taking em
    ting test AND they all keep turning out to b negative! I really want a
    baby girl while my hubby want a baby boy LOLL! I think maybe we are just
    trying to hard, What i can tell you is that its been so many years now
    and i still yet do not have my period??nobody to help because every body
    around us was already at the verge of losing their faith on us.no were
    to run to until one faithful day i was reading a magazine and i stumble
    on a page were i found topic or a head line {A PROPHET} who can heal
    someone from HIV AND AIDS, bring back your EX, enlarge your BREAST, help
    you win a VISA LOTTERY, losing your WEIGHT and even get six PACKS AND
    flatten your BELLY, I gave him a try and before i could no it PROPHET
    MOSES rescue me from my problem by casting a spell for me and told me to
    go and make love with my hubby, then nine months after the spell and
    making love with my husband i delivered a twins A BOY AND A GIRL.This
    spell caster name is PROPHET MOSES so many people have witness his
    wonderful work..He is nice, contact him on
    PROPHETMOSESDSAVIOUR@gmail.com if you are in any predicament•Thanks so
    very much!!

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  43. i am hear to give testimony of how i got back my husband, we got married for more than 9 years and have gotten two kids. thing were going well with us and we are always happy. until one day my husband started to behave in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treat me and the kids. later that month he did not come home again and he called me that he want a divorce, i asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he was saying is that he want a divorce that he hate me and do not want to see me again in his life, i was mad and also frustrated do not know what to do,i was sick for more than 2 weeks because of the divorce. i love him so much he was everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my sister and she told me to contact a spell caster, i never believe in all this spell casting of a thing. i just want to try if something will come out of it. i contacted Dr okojie for the return of my husband to me, they told me that my husband have been taken by another woman, that she cast a spell on him that is why he hate me and also want us to divorce. then they told me that they have to cast a spell on him that will make him return to me and the kids, they caste the spell and after 1 week my husband called me and he told me that i should forgive him, he started to apologize on phone and said that he still live me that he did not know what happen to him that he left me. it was the spell that he Dr okojie caste on him that make him comeback to me today,me and my family are now happy again today. thank you Dr okojie for what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your great spell. i want you my friends who are passing through all this kind of love problem of getting back their husband, wife , or ex boyfriend and girlfriend to contact drokojiehealinghome@gmail.com. and you will see that your problem will be solved without any delay. he is specialized in solving of other problems including the following:
    (1) If you want your ex back.
    (2) if you always have bad dreams.
    (3) You want to be promoted in your office.
    (4) You want women/men to run after you.
    (5) If you want a child.
    (6) If you need financial assistance.
    (7) If you want the cure of HIV AIDS
    contact him now for immediate solution of your
    problems on Drokojiehealinghome@gmail.com
    Thank you

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  44. ALL THE VIEWERS AND READERS PLEASE FIND IT IN YOUR HEART TO FORGIVE ME,I KNOW I HAD DONE SO MANY WRONG THINGS AT PAST TIMES,I DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START WITH MY TESTIMONY..
    I AM VANESSA, i got married to a man [JEROME],who had a wife [JOSEPHINE] already,then i was made the second wife,and this JOSEPHINE has a daughter for my husband,called CHRISTABEL,JOSEPHINE was suffering from leg pain,that later took her life. so Christabel was left to live with me,and my two kids,PATIENCE AND GLORY,Christabel was the eldest of them, so i was misusing CHRISTABEL,SHE is the only one doing all the house work,anytime she dose some thing wrong,i wouldn't give her food to eat all through the day,and beat her up with anything close to me,but she never worry,or insult me.or report to my husband.because i told her if she did i will kill her,i did this to some extent that,one day,she was on her menstruation period, she was afraid to tell me, she was not having enough cloth,so the only cloth she had she put it into her pant,so that, the cloth would soak the bleeding,and the cloth,i was the one that brought it for her,that the only cloth i ever brought for her,then the following morning i saw her cloth on the ground,with blood stain,i called her,and ask her what is this, she told me every thing, but i beat her up, and force the blood in the cloth into her mouth,i over heard her,as she was crying,cursing me,but never bother to listen to the word she was using,but now my two daughters and my son are yet to give birth,PATIENCE,GLORY AND EXCEL,AT their age[37,34 and 31]but they are married no children,i had gone to many places to know the cause of the problem,and CHRISTABEL WAS LIVING HAPPILY with her husband and four kids, three boys and a girl.i don't know how my children,came to know about this HIOYA TEMPLE,when they got there, they told them i was the curse of their, problem,so one morning they all came home,and ask me what have i done to disturb their lives,the question sound,funny.i told them i had done nothing to hold their lives back,they cried me,down to this Hioya temple,i saw the man.he ask me what,did i do to some one,over 19 year ago,i forgot everything.i said nothing,HE EXPLAIN WHAT I DID TO ME,and this CHRISTABEL was helping my children with their needs and always come and pay me a visit and she always called me mummy,so this MAN HIOYA told me to go and apologize to her,once she accept the apology,then he will cast a pregnancy spell on my children,we all went to CHRISTABEL'S house and apologize,she forgives me,so they went back to the spell caster, for the pregnancy spell,TODAY PATIENCE CALL ME AND TOLD ME SHE IS PREGNANT,but I haven't heard anything from the others,maybe they are still angry.with me that's why they haven't called me,..THANKS TO DOCTOR HIOYA FOR EVERY THING, IF YOU ARE FACINGS ANY PROBLEM,VISIT THIS GREAT HIOYA VIA [GREATHIOYATEMPLE@GMAIL.COM]]

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